In the early 1990s, I was intrigued by the nature and degree of sexual side effects engendered by the then-new SSRI antidepressants. These adverse reactions differed from sexual problems associated with tricyclics and MAOIs. Several of us in Arizona created the ASEX scale to track these side effects, and I participated in trials of antidotes and journal reviews of the problem.
Twenty years have passed. A few days ago I chaired a “roundtable” discussion on depression for primary care doctors with my colleagues and friends Michael Thase and Erika Saunders. When we spoke about sexual side effects of serotonergic antidepressants, Michael mentioned the benefits of counseling patients to expect sex to take more time. Here was an obvious and low-tech solution I had never thought of.
I doubt many people book time for sex in their Outlook calendars. Still, couples in stable relationships know roughly how long they need. (For teenagers, the unit of measurement can be seconds.) Few couples will begin a 30-minute encounter if, for example, they’ll need to drive to an appointment or expect the baby to awake in 15 minutes.
So when we start a patient on an SRI antidepressant, suggesting that the patient and partner allow and anticipate more time (and sometimes more stimulation and creativity) can transform what otherwise would be anorgasmia into delayed orgasm. I recall a middle-aged female patient of mine who observed, “I can get there, but I have to work harder.”
-Alan J. Gelenberg, M.D.
Editor, Biological Therapies in Psychiatry
Shively/Tan Professor and Chair, Psychiatry, Penn State University
Editor-in-Chief, Journal of Clinical Psychiatry